We had a pampered chef party last night, which was fun it was a Tappas party.
We had some amazing food. We only had two other people show up, other than Amy, Charmin, Cindy and myself.
The end of the night, somehow Amy got some shrimp on her and started having an allergic reaction. Our pampered chef lady is a nurse, so she had Amy take some benedryl and sit down and relax.
This next part I didn’t want to post, but I am tired of just keeping my feelings all in and I need to vent somewhere, so here goes:
When everyone was leaving her mother wanted us to call the doctor and maybe take her to the emergency room. The only problem is I have no insurance and no one to watch the kids for me. She assumed I meant for her to take Amy, and she started complaining that she had work/school and couldn’t stay out all night, etc. etc. (Which, I never asked her too)
She wanted to have Tony stay the night in case I had to take her, but he didn’t want to, because he had no clothes to wear. So he got upset and she started getting upset and I told him to just go, cause I didn’t need to deal with attitude and a bitchy boy, while trying to take care of Amy. So I told her, “It would be fine and I will handle it, we’ll just take the kids with us.”
So then she decided to have Matt stay, but he didn’t want to and got upset and I told him, “just go, it’s fine.” So he was upset and then Mona started in on him, saying, “Do you even know what’s going on?”, he said, “Yeah I do”
I told her it was fine, I don’t want him there or Tony, and I started getting upset and then she told me, to “Just Quit”.
I got furious. You don’t tell me what to do in my house. I had already told her it was fine, I have other people we can call, just go. And then she goes and tells me to just quit. Sorry, but your not my mother. And frankly, my mother wouldn’t tell me to do that in my house either. And she lives here!
So I got pissed, and Matt started for the door and she started in on him and I just turned towards everyone and said, “Everyone, just get out of my house.” I don’t remember if she said anything back, because I was so pissed off, and mainly at her, because she wouldn’t let it go.
Matt got to the door and said something, and she said something back and he said something about, “Your the Problem” and I wanted to agree with him, but I held my tongue. Or I was just to pissed off to say anything.
So she kept telling me to call the doctor and basically made me feel like
- she didn’t trust me to take care of her daughter.
- Made me feel incompetent. (Okay, so maybe they are the same thing or very similar, bite me)
I just wanted everyone out of my house. I would handle it. I didn’t need all these people telling me what to do.
Even though all through the night, I was doing other things and wasn’t right by Amy’s side, I had my ear and eyes on her. I was listening to her.
Apparently, I was the only one, because if people would have listened to her, she said she was feeling much better and even though her throat was tight, it wasn’t as tight as it was before. Just a few weeks ago, she accidentally touched wool and the same thing happened and it too passed.
People make me so mad and after the fact I always end up telling Amy what I would have said. Since she has finally been telling people off, I decided I should probably start too, otherwise people won’t realize how I feel.
So there ya go. Don’t tell me what to do in my house, and if I say I will take care of something, I will. I don’t need someone to keep telling me what to do.