A disclaimer

Some­one is going around telling fam­i­ly mem­bers that I have this blog to specif­i­cal­ly say bad things about people.

So, to the per­son who is read­ing my blog and twist­ing my words. STOP. I don’t know you, I have nev­er met you, YOU DON’T KNOW ME, so stop spread­ing lies about me.

Now, I want to tell you that what they are say­ing is not true. I start­ed this blog so that peo­ple (friends and fam­i­ly) could learn more about me.

I am a very qui­et guy by nature, and this blog lets me get out feel­ings and moods and lets me just get out my thoughts.

And a warn­ing… my wife is not so qui­et and shy, if you attack me, she’ll kick your ass. (She want­ed me to post that.)

This post also lets me get out things that are on my mind. Some are good and some are bad, but I don’t use this to attack people.

There are two dis­tinct posts in here where I am bitchin about fam­i­ly mem­bers. One names a spe­cif­ic per­son, one does not. 

The only time I will ever com­plain about some­one is if they specif­i­cal­ly attack me or roy­al­ly piss me off. Then I may post about the expe­ri­ence and how I felt.

I was raised to not “cre­ate waves” and if some­one attacked you, you took it and don’t say any­thing. I am not a fighter.

But if you real­ly piss me off, I won’t say any­thing “in that moment” becuase I usu­al­ly just don’t know what to say, but after I have had time to think the sit­u­a­tion over, I usu­al­ly have a lot to say about it, and by post­ing, part of me hopes that per­son will read it and real­ize how much they hurt me, with­out me hav­ing to actu­al­ly tell them to their face, because that is some­thing I just can’t do.

So, I WILL NEVER POST ANYTHING HURTFUL about some­one, UNLESS, you did some­thing to me per­son­al­ly that real­ly hurt me. Then I MAY post about it, but it is very rare.